Reflections on College: Lessons Learned and Memorable Moments

Personal reflections on college often take us back to pivotal moments that shape our lives. This journey through my college days contains some of the most formative and memorable lessons, as well as the unique challenges faced during the transitional period from high school to higher education.

Initial Struggles: The Freshman Year

My freshman year at the University of the Philippines in 1962 was both challenging and enlightening. I faced several academic hurdles, notably Western Thoughts Philosophy 1 and English 1, both of which drew me into a whirlwind of new concepts and theories. Interestingly, I miserably failed in these subjects. However, my journey was not entirely without light; I barely passed Eastern Thoughts with an Indian-looking mustached professor who commented, 'Every time I look at you, Mr. Camba, I was 15 back then and in short khaki pants; I am amused.' The professor's commentary was a mix of amusement and curiosity, reflecting the teacher's keen observation and the student's eagerness to learn despite the initial struggles.

The Eastern Thoughts course, though challenging, introduced me to profound spiritual and philosophical texts, such as Bhagavadgita and Hinduism, and the concept of nirvana. Despite the intense academic pressure, I managed to retain a small portion of this knowledge. One of the intricate subjects covered was the peaceful resistance against British monarchy led by Mahatma Gandhi and the meaningful act of cotton spinning. These lessons helped shape my perspective on leadership, non-violent resistance, and the importance of cultural heritage.

Academic Realizations and Successes

Despite the initial setbacks, I found solace and success in my STEM subjects, particularly Algebra, where I scored an impressive 88. This achievement marked a turning point, a sign that with hard work and dedication, academic success is achievable. My journey through college taught me the value of perseverance and resilience, qualities that are invaluable both academically and in life.

The Impact of External Factors

Our studies were not just confined to the classroom but were also influenced by external circumstances. My father's successful business in the retail sector, which supported my education, was tragically destroyed by a fire in 1961. This fire, which raged beneath the slopes of Mayon Volcano, not only destroyed our business but also our hometown. The devastation of the fire was immense, with over 1200 residents losing their lives in 1814. This tragedy underscored the importance of financial security and the unpredictability of life. It was a stark reminder of the fragility of our circumstances and the value of preparing for the worst while hoping for the best.

Personal Scholars and Guidance

As the years progressed, I found a renewed sense of purpose and a deeper appreciation for college life. In my final year, I penned a reflection on the challenges and lessons learned. It was a period of intense academic and personal struggle, but it also brought me closer to a sense of direction and self-discovery. The following are some key takeaways from this phase:

Don't Trust Easily: Learn to be cautious and discerning in your choices. Graduation often marks the end of a regular face-to-face interaction with most of your peers, so building genuine, lasting relationships is crucial. Seek Guidance: Having a senior or mentor can provide invaluable guidance, helping you navigate the complexities of your courses and practical exams. Performance Matters: In the initial years, your performance truly matters. Strive to stand out and achieve the highest grades possible. Stay Independent: If you find it difficult to fit into a certain social group, it's perfectly fine to stay independent. College is about personal growth, not just social bonding. Self-Reflection: Recognize that the most significant competition is within yourself. Never argue and always strive to improve yourself. Stay Involved: Engage in activities and events, even if they are small in scale. This engagement will help in personal development and networking. Early Prep: If you are preparing for TETs or CTET, start early. Consistent preparation is key to success. Classroom Teaching: Engage actively in classroom teaching. This not only improves your learning but also enhances your personality and leadership skills.

For those who find their college days less than ideal, it's important to hold on to the belief that every phase of life has its purpose. With faith and dedication, you can turn any difficult situation into an opportunity for growth and success. As I move forward with these reflections, I will share more stories and lessons from my college days, and I encourage you to keep hustling and making the most of your time in college.

Closing Thoughts

Life is a continuous journey of learning, and my college days were no exception. Each challenge and success is a stepping stone towards a more informed and resilient future. Whether it's facing academic challenges or personal struggles, the lessons learned in college are invaluable and will stay with us for a lifetime. Stay tuned for more stories and insights!