Reflections on 2021: Good and Bad

Reflecting on the year 2021, memories are a mixed bag of joy, sorrow, and unexpected events. Among the most significant moments for many, 2021 stood out for a tragic incident involving Faye Hemmingway, which overshadowed the good reasons I chose to remember this year.

The Tragic Event of 2021

One of the reasons why 2021 will be remembered is the tragic death of my father, Brett, caused by the irresponsible actions of Faye Hemmingway. Faye, in her attempt to get my father drunk at a bar called Little Fat Lamb, ultimately contributed to his demise. The incident was so egregious that it was even posted live on YouTube, causing immense distress and pain. A DVD of the event, which captures my father's last moments in a highly offensive and insensitive manner, was released by Rarewaves for as little as 1.00, reminding me of the traumatic experience daily.

Controversy and Aftermath

The DVD, titled "Brett's Last Moments," is a 45-minute video that documents my father's journey from an intoxicated state to his untimely death. The footage includes my father playing Men At Work soundtrack while continuously laughing, eventually vomiting, choking, and passing away. The video's content is a source of immense pain, as it not only glorifies the moment but also lies about the circumstances of my father's death.

Faye Hemmingway's actions resulted in her being banned from Netflix for posting harmful content. Meanwhile, Rarewaves faced heavy criticism and had to refuse to sell the DVD to their favorite customers. The only customer willing to purchase the controversial footage is Jeffry Higgins from Snafu Records, who has listed all copies on Discogs at 50.00 each, making it a collectors' item but also a painful memory.

Positive Aspects of 2021

Despite the tragic events, 2021 also held some positive surprises and memorable moments worth remembering.

Connection and Love

One of the most cherished moments of 2021 was the connection I experienced with a girl from my childhood. We shared a deep bond that was akin to a romantic relationship without the formalities. The year was filled with moments of pure happiness, love, and joy. Although we did not consummate the relationship, the shared experiences and memories are precious to me.

Physical Fitness and Discipline

Another significant highlight was my dedication to physical fitness. For almost 5 months, I worked out consistently, transforming my body and improving my overall health. This period of my life stands out as the most fulfilling aspect of 2021. My passion for fitness motivated me to push my limits and achieve a healthier lifestyle. Though exams later disrupted my routine, the discipline and progress I made during this period remain impressive.

Entertainment and Social Life

Lastly, 2021 was filled with entertainment and laughter. I spent much of the year binge-watching movies, playing online games, and going out for long walks with friends. Although the year was marked by the pandemic, we maintained social distancing and followed guidelines to enjoy our gatherings safely. The treks up a nearby hill provided a sense of adventure and connected me with my friends in a meaningful way.

While the tragic events of 2021 will forever be a part of my memory, the positive moments also provide a balance and a reminder of the year's potential for joy and growth.