Navigating Boy Scout Membership: Guidance for Parents and Atheist Values

Yes, I was part of the Boy Scouts from age 8 to 16. My troop was dissolved, and I remained irreligious since 13-14. I am LGBTQ, and I have been an ally throughout my life. Despite these aspects of my identity, I want to ensure that my son, who is 8 and eager to be a Scout, is able to join a troop that supports him unconditionally. Here's a guide based on my experiences and the values of modern scouting.

Understanding Scouting in 2023

Scouting is more than just camping and outdoor activities. It is about character development, leadership, respect for others, and a commitment to build better communities. The Boy Scouts of America (BSA) has evolved significantly in recent years, making it a welcoming environment for boys and their parents of all backgrounds.

Atheist and LGBTQ-Inclusive Troops

I understand your concern as an atheist and supporter of LGBTQ rights. However, modern scouting is more inclusive than ever. Troop 187 in Kensington, Brooklyn, stands as a shining example. They explicitly state that they accept, welcome, and support boys and their parents regardless of their religion, sexual orientation, race, national origin, or any other characteristic. Additionally, they are actively welcoming girls to their troop.

Policy on LGBTQ Youth

The BSA's current policy supports openly gay adults and youth. Many respected and long-standing Scout leaders confirm this. There have even been transgender counselors in the past. These changes reflect a significant shift from the 1990s and early 2000s, when the LDS Church dominated. The organization has long since moved past these restrictive policies. Today, diverse backgrounds are celebrated, and there is a growing emphasis on diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI).

Values of Scouting

Scouting teaches essential leadership and character skills. It instills outdoor survival and first aid knowledge, as well as responsible citizenship. Scouts are encouraged to have reverence for God or a higher power, according to their individual beliefs, while respecting the beliefs of others. Seditious atheism, defined as the belief that religious beliefs are foolish and all religious people are morons, would be a problem for Scouting. Instead, the values of respect, honesty, and community are core to the scouting experience.

Religious Diversity and Inclusion

The term "God" used in scouting literature is broad and inclusive. It refers to "whatever God or a higher power or greater meaning of the universe means to you." This inclusive language ensures that all Scouts, regardless of their religious or spiritual background, feel valued and respected. In my experience, scouting was one of the few places where I could be of any religion or none, and all were given equal footing and respect. We could learn about others' beliefs without the fear of being marginalized.

Inclusivity and Respect

Inclusivity in scouting extends to all aspects of diversity. Scouts are taught to respect and value differences, build teams, and work together with people who have different values. There is no space for partisan politics in scouting activities. This creates an environment where children learn to dialogue and collaborate, regardless of their viewpoints.

Ensuring Civil Rights and Equality

Respecting people and ensuring civil rights for all citizens are core values in scouting. Scouts are taught how to treat people as people and to value them for what they bring to the table. The scouting program is not about dating or fooling around. Instead, it is about building relationships, understanding different perspectives, and promoting a culture of respect and empathy.

Despite encountering individuals with different values, diversity is celebrated in scouting. Dialogue and teamwork are encouraged, fostering a sense of community among Scouts of different backgrounds. Partisan politics are not welcome, promoting a more focused and productive scouting environment.

Conclusion

Scouting remains a valuable and inclusive organization that supports all boys, regardless of their religious or sexual orientation. If you are concerned about your son joining scouts, consider troop 187 or other welcoming troops in your area. Their emphasis on diversity, equity, and inclusion makes them a great choice for your family. Scouting is a place where your son can grow, learn, and thrive in a supportive and inclusive environment.