Exploring the Reasons Behind Choosing to Disregard the First Name for a Middle Name
Many individuals in our society have the unique experience of having more than one name, often leading to interesting decisions about which one to use in various scenarios. This article delves into why people choose to use their middle name instead of their first name in different contexts, focusing on personal backgrounds, cultural influences, and individual preferences.
The Cultural Significance of Middle Names
In some cultures, such as in Albania, the middle name is considered legally and socially significant, even over the first name. Similarly, in the case of Gene Lee, his middle name 'Lee' became his go-to name due to the rough environment he grew up in, where a more aggressive or neutral name might be more advantageous. Here, the middle name takes on a role that extends beyond personal preference to practical necessity.
The Case of Houston Junior
Houston Junior provides an interesting example. Unlike Gene Lee, who chose a middle name due to his upbringing, Houston Junior's moniker is rooted in family tradition. His father’s name being Houston led to his being dubbed 'Junior', a practice often seen in extended families or communities with strong ties. Even though his father passed away 20 years ago, Houston Junior is likely to continue using this name as a cherished family legacy.
The Intention Behind Choosing a Middle Name
For others, their middle name holds a special meaning or came about through a specific intention. Gene’s mother chose his name 'Julian' with John Lennon's elder son in mind. Despite the initial plan to use it as a first name, Nicholas became his given name, while Julian remained a cherished middle name. On the other hand, Dani has a middle name starting with 'Edward', yet 'Dani' is the name he commonly goes by, often paired with a humorous or colloquial nickname, 'Dammit what have you done now', reflecting a personal preference for a more recognizable name among peers.
The Role of ADHD in Personal Naming
Dani, who has undiagnosed ADHD, had a unique experience using his middle name in a professional context. When he sailed across the Atlantic, his quick movements on the deck earned him the nickname 'Fast Eddie', adapting his middle name into a well-known and respected moniker. However, since acquiring a double-barreled surname, he has rarely used his middle name, emphasizing the importance of personal identity in modern life.
The Impact of Naming on Professional and Social Identities
The choice to use a middle name often reflects an individual's professional, social, and personal identity. Names are more than just labels; they carry significant meaning. For instance, both Kosuke Hagino and Kosuke Kitajima, famous swimmers, would face identity issues if they were known only by 'Kosuke', underlining the importance of middle names, especially in professional contexts. This underscores the idea that while a first name is often the primary identifier, a middle name can provide additional layers of personal identity and respect.
Conclusion
Choosing to use a middle name instead of a first name is a deeply personal decision, often influenced by cultural, familial, and individual factors. Whether due to a rough upbringing, family tradition, personal preference, or professional necessity, the choice to use a middle name highlights the complex interplay between personal identity and social expectations.