Beliefs vs. Wishes: Navigating Personal Convictions in a Complex World
Throughout our lives, we often find ourselves in a state of wishing and desiring things that we deeply believe should be true. However, these wishes are often at odds with the beliefs we hold dear. In this article, we will explore the concept of beliefs versus wishes, drawing from the personal experiences of an individual and the broader context of societal issues.
Beliefs and Wishes: The Dichotomy
Beliefs form the foundation of our understanding of the world, shaping our actions and guiding our choices. On the other hand, wishes represent our desires for a better world, some of which we cannot or do not believe to be true. It’s not uncommon for these wishes to coincide with our beliefs, creating a sense of alignment and purpose. However, when our wishes align with something we do not believe in, it can lead to a sense of dissonance. As the saying goes, ‘What you wish for is not what you want for.’
Escaping Earth: A Metaphorical Flight
Consider the concept of escape velocity from Earth, which is around 11,186 meters per second. For many, this high velocity makes space travel seem either impractical or impossible. However, if we could lower this velocity, it could solve numerous problems, from reducing the cost of accessing space to increasing our understanding of the universe. This metaphorical flight is not about physical escape but rather a symbol of the freedom and opportunities that might be available if we could lower certain barriers.
Addressing Societal Concerns
Current events and political figures such as Biden, Sadiq Khan, Trudeau, and the sentencing of George Floyd’s murderer, Chauvin, highlight the complexities of societal issues. Ideological debates, such as the control of social media and the legalization of hate speech, further complicate the landscape. These issues often boil down to the tension between personal freedom, social justice, and state regulations.
Personal Reflection and Spiritual Journey
For many, personal beliefs and wishes intersected in the realm of spirituality. The concept of confession, as found in Catholicism, is seen as a way to seek spiritual cleansing and guidance. However, aligning with this tradition often requires a deep understanding and acceptance of its tenets, which can be a challenge.
The Search for Meaning
Personal beliefs can also intersect with one's search for meaning, especially in the absence of profound experiences. Childhood memories often influence these beliefs. For the author, the passing of their parents led to a wish for the existence of Heaven, allowing them to reunite with loved ones lost. This desire, while not based on a concrete belief in an all-knowing, all-powerful, and all-loving God, reflects a profound longing for connection and continuity.
The Quest for the Soulmate
Lastly, the concept of soulmates often intrigues and tantalizes. This belief in a predetermined perfect match, while not universally accepted, is a shared ideal in many cultures. The author acknowledges the possibility of a soulmate but remains ambivalent, hoping for the best while recognizing the improbability of such a perfect pairing.
Beliefs and wishes are integral to our personal journeys. They shape our perspectives, guide our actions, and sometimes challenge us to reconsider our convictions. Whether it’s the escape velocity from Earth, the complexities of societal issues, the search for spiritual cleansing, or the quest for a soulmate, each belief and wish reflects a unique facet of human experience. As we navigate these beliefs and wishes, it is essential to maintain a balance between hope and pragmatism, understanding that sometimes the most profound changes come from the work we do, rather than the wishes we dream.